How Do You Deal with Narcissist?

You don’t.

How do you deal with narcissist?

I see this question so often.

You just don’t deal with them and take back your power from them.

A person can only do to you what you ALLOW them to do.

People will eventually show you who they are and out of “love” we stay in connection with folks that really aren’t worthy of our light.

We can’t fix anyone and you’ll only dim your own light trying. They got their own journey and inner work to do. Focus on your own.

At some point, we have to take awareness of OUR ROLE in our own PAIN.

This is a conversation and a realization I’ve had with myself so many times in so many areas of my life.


No one will EVER have that power over me.

Everything is on me.

Every L and every W. That’s ALL me.

It gets not freer than that.

I love who the hell I am today and I’ll be even greater tomorrow.

It’s HELLA up!

Published by Kilo Sade

These things can be so trivial so I’ll give a quick synopsis: I am Love. I am Light. Sometimes I’m wrong. Sometimes I’m right. Sometimes I’m low. Sometimes I get high. But at the end of the day I just live true to self throughout this life. That was hella cheesy but that’s me. Asé I’m also a 34 year old Working Mother of 4 boys (pray for me), lover to D2 (swoon), Sistar, Loc’d Goddess, Crystal Healing, Card Reading, Herb brewing, poem writing, hair styling, earth loving, pet whispering REBEL. Follow me on Instagram: @heykilocares

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