Y’all debating and worrying about the wrong things.
Like assholes, everyone has opinions.
Doesn’t mean they are truth or valid.
People live accordingly to their own truth. What works for them may or may not work for you. Vice/versa.
Their lives. Their issue. Not yours or mine.
Y’all make adulting unnecessarily difficult.
Theirs been a debate on my timeline on young boys playing with kitchen sets at a young age not being deemed “ok” and how it’ll end up with the young boy growing up gay.
The silliest shit I’ve ever seen.
This debate further pulls the mask off of folks too and if I were someone in the LGBTQ community I’d be side eyeing a lot of you.
This debate could potentially be triggering to think that
Growing up gay is a problem or a disease.
How most of y’all would react if your child came to you and came out. I’d hate to be that child about to come out to someone that’s immature and only loves me under the condition that I live up to their standards.
A lot to unpack.
Sexual preferences is up to someone’s discretion. It’s not disgusting, it’s not a disease, and quite frankly it’s none of any of y’all’s concerns if someone is attracted to the opposite gender.
The only things disgusting in our community is grooming underage boys and girls, incest, child molestation that y’all sweep into closets and refuse to acknowledge or speak on that continues cycles of trauma in our community, and the oversexualization of our young Queens.
That should really be a conversation!
And women feed into this self hate more than the men do. Yet y’all benefit from the services that a lot of Gay men provide.
I never understood why it was more acceptable for two women to be gay and not two men.
As you cleanse, what are some changes you’re starting to notice?
Somethings that you may experience that I have are:
Regularized bowl movements
As a child I suffered from constipation. Mother dear gave me prune juice (yuck) often to help with it. Doctors would tell my Mom that I needed Milk of Magnesium and Mother Dear wouldn’t have it. She always relied on diet and prune juice or NASTY CASTOR OIL!
In my adult years I definitely would be able to tell if I wasn’t eating right by the movement of my bowels.
On average a human adult should have at least a bowel movement or two a day. (Don’t trust Google)
Our bodies are a system that runs as one and runs 24 hrs even while we are sleeping our organs are going and keeping us vibrating.
To be honest you should at least have 3 a day.
They should not be runny and definitely not to hard.
My Endocrinologist told me that once I started to see a ‘S’ shape in my stool that I was doing right.
Some people are probably like that gross you pay attention to all that but we really should.
How else do you know yourself if you’re not paying attention to yourself and what is produced and coming from you?
Your Menstruation maybe altered or delayed as your cleanse due to your body safely preparing itself to release toxins with your flow.
You may see an increase of rashes or acne as the toxins are being pushed out of your system through not only your bowels but your skin. Make sure you’re drinking plenty of water. I typically fill my 33 oz water bottle up and drink it throughout the day refilling it up twice. On the third refill around bedtime I drink half the bottle and in the morning I wake up and drink the other half and refill. I drink about 70+ ounces of water a day.
Water intake varies but signs that you’re drinking to much water extremely clear urine and frequent urination. Cut back if you start to experience this.
If you’re not drinking enough your mouth will be dry, headaches, and dark urine will be present.
This is why it’s super important during this cleanse that you learn yourself and what you need and how your respond.
Overtime and sticking to an Intentional Wellness Food Plan you will see a natural glow radiating from your skin.
Going through withdrawals and craving gets heavy. You may feel irritable or moody. Yoga and breathe work is amazing. I’m going to post a breathing exercise that I love to do that helps me calm down and find my flow and balance.
Keeping nuts and berries will help as well. Making sure you’re starting your morning off either eating fruits and veggies or oats and berries will help you feel full and jumpstart your system.
You’re off to a good start! Taking back control of your physical being which will ignite serenity within your mental and spiritual essence.
I laugh and joke about astrology for shits and giggles but to be serious for a moment Astrology is a lot deeper than your sun sign.
That’s just surface level.
Astrology is just as complex as we are because it is of us.
Despite what you believe it can all be correlated, like our own genetic makeup, to the Universe.
As the same atoms that make up the stars are what we too are comprised of.
A lot of the times when you’re bashing other signs I guarantee a lot of that sign you’re bashing is probably all up and through your Birthchart governing houses and ruled by planets that make up your character and nature. And instead of understanding it, you shame it coincidentally shaming yourself.
If anything Astrology is merely a guide or a map to navigate through life that’s an added bones to our design.
WE still CHOOSE how we want to get to the destined ending that’s already written for us. That’s what we are in control of.
God/Source/Allah (pick your choice) already has the plan, we either go along with it, trusting ourselves and following the stars and signs that Thee created, or we OURSELVES not any evil entity, will go off course and try to wing it alone and ignoring red flags.
We allow false fulfillment from lust, desire, greed, envy, and vanity consume us and fill us with ego driven pride losing our essence and our true identity.
The only solution is to go within, face ourselves, be real with ourselves. Have a real heart to heart admitting and accepting our flaws and way ward ways so that we can internally realign and find balance.
That’s how you truly heal.
I can’t heal anyone I can just offer advice and be an example of a person that journeyed through her own darkness, even still, and found enough light to guide myself through it, even still.
It’s all consciousness. You can either be a prisoner to your mind, emotions, desires, and impulses. OR you can be a Master of it all.
There’s a moment in life where you get to a point where the only thing that matters is your peace of mind.
I am there.
I realized last night that we really can control our narrative. We control what we indulge in. We control who we want to deal with. What we want to believe. What we think. What we open our minds and hearts to.
We really have more control over our experience here on Earth than we give ourselves credit for.
I believe my journey has been leading me here for a very long time and last night it finally resonated loudly.
And it felt Damn good.
I don’t have to indulge in, react to, converse with, bond with, fight with anyone about what it is that I choose to believe in.
Recently I had a friend that I admire delete myself and a few others off of his page and I never understood why but I respected it and understood that it’s no hard feelings.
We really don’t have to engage with what doesn’t resonate with our energy.
Honestly I respect people more who regain back their power. It’s control and the unnecessary attachments that we have with folks due to history with them or our own need for others validation that we follow and befriend folks that our soul just doesn’t vibe with.
I’m extremely good on that.
Honestly, if I had more time and didn’t have more pressing things to do I’d do a deep purge on my personal Facebook page as well.
We get way too attached to it. And honestly I’d rather have physical social interactions with a lot of you because you’re real persona is better than the one you portray online.
Then a lot of you are worst than what you portray online. And honestly, none of it personally concerns me at all.
I feel hella freed to be able to engage in and with who I choose to socialize with.
I encourage others to get to this point to.
My debating days are over.
Now, I absolute LOVE having meetings of the minds with folks but your delivery, approach, and tone will determine rather I engage with you or not.
Some of you are too emotionally tied into your beliefs and I will forever challenge and push you to see how unhealthy it is to be that invested emotionally in anything.
So, our conversation would be pointless. UNTIL you release some cords holding you captive.
See myself, I’m free. I’m not attached to anything or anyway of thinking and with folks who vibrate on a similar frequency even having beliefs that is different from mine, we can discuss things from a place of respect and love.
Y’all love coming straight in with punchlines, disrespect, and that elitist mentality which honestly says more about you than any point you’re trying to make.
And I’ll only frustrate you further because you can’t bully or project your opinions on me.
So yeah. There’s so much freedom in controlling what you want to see, what you want to say, where you want to go, and who you want to deal with.