Kilo Cares

Self doubt is killing your dreams and your visions. Stunts your growth. Stunts everything beautiful within you. True learning experience! I will never DOUBT MYSELF AGAIN! So I say to anyone currently going through a period of self doubt and victimization. I love you. You are important. Your gifts are important. Take that step. Even…

Today was a low vibing day for me initially. I’ve been restless lately. Grateful, and blessed, yet and still this period of time is rough for me. Constant ups and downs. And until today I couldn’t identify it. As we near year 7 that our Mama has been gone, I feel like everything is coming…

Forgiveness is for YOU! It is the most powerful SELF CARE TOOL that we possess. Being a resentful person wastes so much energy and typically places you in dark mental spaces. I refuse to wait for an apology that I may never receive. I’m not asking for you to forgive someone for them, I’m asking…

Every year, every holiday, we have the same black people complaining about other black people celebrating Holidays. Sighs…. get over it and tend to you. Where you try to feign this “Elitist idealism of Woke Glory” all I see is misguided bullies too out of touch to face their own inner pain…. I won’t touch…

Don’t emphasis what should already be evident! I don’t have to promote that I am a positive person. I just am who I am. You’re going to meet me and feel me out and from that interaction YOU will determine how you perceive me and what you think of me. How I perceive myself is…

I don’t sell or speak on anything I’m not familiar with, won’t use or I’m not well versed in. Every day I’m reading and investing in my Gifts. I’m ALWAYS re-educating myself on EVERYTHING I’m versed in. Grateful for my minds expansion! Grateful for the Universe for aligning me with so many amazing people along…

Depression is a real pain in my ass. Like how do so many of us deal with it? I’m over it. I want it to go away. And the moment I think it is gone something triggers me back to the glooms. It’s a never ending battle that I am sick of. I never feel…

I hid my pain in plain sight. I was always admired for my strength and ability not to fold under pressure. Strength was my mask. I may have been strong dealing with shit but I WAS NOT HAPPY. Every night when the lights were turned off and I was left alone to sit with myself,…

I always knew and felt that I was different. Not because my Gifted Education Teacher told me so or that I was in the 4th grade with a 10th grade comprehension level. No, I was different because I always felt deeply. Seen things differently. Expressed myself differently. Yet, I was constantly misunderstood. Which began my…

“If she’s amazing she won’t be easy.” ~ Bob Marley Side note: I’m not proud about this. I’m a work in constant progress. Moving and grooving at my own damn speed. My favorite big cousin Kam use to sing this children’s song to us as a kid that went, “I’m a nut. In a hut.”…